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Sex Addicts Anonymous meetings (he tried three)
- My take: The first felt awkward. The second felt less awkward. The third stuck. Hearing “me too” helps more than clever tips.
- Rating: 8/10
- Looking for a meeting? The Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) Meeting Finder lists in-person, online, and phone options so you can choose what feels safest to start.
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CSAT therapist (in-person, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist)
- My take: This was the big one. He needed someone who spoke this exact language. Shame fell off his face in week two. Not cheap, but worth it.
- Rating: 10/10
- If you’re searching for a qualified professional in your area, the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) directory is a solid starting point for finding certified counselors who specialize in sexual health and addiction.
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